Jan 13, 2010

PHASES OF THE MALE AND FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS

how to date a woman

Phases of the male and female relationships

 

Dating is linear. Just like everything else, it has a beginning and unfortunately, also an end. In almost all cases, male and female relationships experience the same phases of the dating process, from introduction up to intimacy. With this kind of logic, men can expect some rules in dating. Below, I will discuss the phases of the female to male relationships and what a man has to do with it.

 

Introduction

 

This is where everything starts. Boy meets girl. Girl meets boy. If you like a girl, go introduce yourself and if you are a bit shy, be a little fuzzy, ask someone to introduce you to her.

 

Hook

 

The moment you were introduced, don’t turn yourself to a stone monument. Talk. Drop a joke. Communicate to her (subcommunicate) that you are a fun and comfortable person to be with. Once in a while, show her how you stand out in the crowd. Not too much though because it will back fire.

 

Screen

 

It does not follow that just because you are the man you are the only one who has to impress or do the hooking thing. This is the most common mistake of men. Don’t fall into it. You are also a human being who has a standard. Does she meet your requirements? Is she good enough? Ask her some questions. Does she know how to cook? Is she possessive? Whatever comes to your mind that will qualify her to you.

 

Touch

 

What separates a lover from a friend is the concept of intimacy. I am not saying that grab her right away after meeting her. Learn to touch. Learn to communicate through your body. It can be simple hand holding or a kiss in the cheek. However small it is at start, do it. The important thing is to start early and continue to escalate. This will lessen the awkwardness to more intimate moments. Also, this will also take away your passport to friend zone.

 

Vibe

 

Vibing is a very important word when it comes to dating. Vibing is talking without a purpose. Vibing is talking without worrying the outcome. Vibing is talking without being conscious to what you will say. Words just come out from your mouth when you are vibing. This is a great phase to really know the other person. Vibe with her. Listen to her. Share some secrets. You get the idea.

 

Bounce

 

Though not really necessary, it is great if you two shall share some experiences to different places. From meeting her, plant a goal to your head to bring her somewhere. It could be a park or your favorite restaurant. The idea is to involve as many as possible memories of you two together.

 

Intimacy

 

Everyone needs it. Women need it. Men need it. Give it to her. At this point you already knew each other very well. There is nothing awkward if this comes. This is inevitable.

 

I hope you learn the basics ‘rules’ of dating a woman and the important phases of the male and female relationships. Every phase of male and female relationships are important because every phase uncover a part of you or a part of her that is important when you two enter a real relationship. So what are you waiting for, go out, test it and see if I am just making up a story!

 

-Twiggy

 

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