Girl IQ or what can be generally referred as romantic intelligence shares the dynamics of any other areas of knowledge and skills; it can improve and it can also deteriorate. Though natural talent has something to do with it, we cannot deny that one’s girl IQ or romantic intelligence is improved through its constant use and practice.
For you to know women, you must study women. We can have at least two ways to improve this muscle. First, go out there and have some female friends of all kinds. The best way to know people is to be with them. When you befriend women or enter into a relationship with them you break in to their persona (Carl Jung) or the character that they present to acquaintances or strangers. You will see what is inside of a woman. You can see how tough or how soft they are. You remember Miranda in the Devil Wears Prada? You are familiar with this kind of women who are so tough on the outside but so fragile inside. You can only know the real them if you are always around them. Travel, go out, join groups and make some women friends!
Another thing you have to do is to grab some books and magazines. There are many books and articles that were written for the purpose of understanding women. Some good examples are ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ by Dr. John Gray and ‘How to be the Jerk Women Love’ written by F.J. Shark. It is no brainer that if you really want to know women, you have to read these kinds of books. It will save you time by following and learning from the footsteps of these writers. It will also help you by not bumping to the same walls again and again.
Lastly, balance your quest, I have seen many guys that are very knowledgeable in the dynamics of the female mind and behaviors in the theoretical aspect. However, when you put them in the field, they can’t make use of any this piece of knowledge. Try not to be one of those men. What good is knowledge if you cannot make some use of it in the real world? Nothing. You aren’t even sure if that ‘knowledge’ is correct since you can’t go out there and prove it.
Provide a balance in your learning. If you read something, go out there and try it. Most of your sticking points are auto-correct if you just put them in to test. If you learn something from a female friend, go out there again and see if it is true for all women.
Sum these three things to increase your girl IQ. Read, Study and Go out!
-Twiggy
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