Feb 6, 2010

The Power of all Relationships Lies to Whoever Cares Less

 

The Power of all Relationships Lies to Whoever Cares LessAt this moment I am really not sure if I am to publish this article. As far as I can see, my last articles brought big raises in the eyebrow for our many readers and this one that I am writing this one is in my opinion will outrank every negativity in my last writings.

 

However, the rational in my head is that at the very start, I did not write this blog, the Cool Jerks, to just be a mere entertainment blog. I don’t write what you want to hear but rather what you need to hear. There is a mission or goal if you want to call it at the very start — TO TEACH MEN HOW TO GET THE RESPECT EVERY MEN DESERVED.

 

So here we are, starting with a quote I first heard from F.J. Sharke and Michael Douglas (Ghost of Girlfriends’ Past). Let me write it again.

 

“The power of all relationships lies to whoever cares less”

(Read it once more. I will not explain it. You will have to ponder it by yourself. Take some five minutes of your time to really contemplate it.)

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Its hard to think but it is the sad truth. The world is not a fairy tale. Its nice to think that the world is but it is not. It is nice to think that our kindness, efforts and good will are always returned with the same degree but it is not. How I wish that power to the opposite sex can be acquired with the usual vanilla nice guy characters. How I wish that the longer he listens to her whining and call for help, the better his chances with her. How I wish that the more gifts you shower to a girl, the stickier she will grab her hands on yours. How I wish that every friendly hug or kiss in the cheeks will lead him to something for intimate. Sadly, it is not.

 

Its a fact of life we must all accept.

Bar Scene from Ghost of Girlfriends Past wherein Wayne is teaching Conner the most profound idea in human dynamics

 

 

Despite all these truths, don’t ever think that the world is bad and the world is not fair. It just happened that what is going in your head is not what is going around in the real world. Don’t judge. It is not bad. It is not good. It is what it is.

 

All we have to do is to wake up and see the world to what it is really is.

 

You must wake up. We must wake up. Everyone must wake up to the reality that is going around.

 

-Twiggy

 

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11 comments:

Callan S. on February 8, 2010 at 3:52 PM said...

It depends if all you want from the relationship is power over the relationship.

Granted if the other person just wants power, then there's nothing else you can get from that relationship but power yourself.

Rich Manila on February 8, 2010 at 5:08 PM said...

Power leads to what...

Anonymous said...

the movie itself busted the positivity of this idea. in mead's toast, he said power doesnt mean happiness. for sure power means something. different things depending on what a person wants from the relationship. power is good enough. Happiness can't have a single definition.

long live the jerks LOL

Rich Manila on February 11, 2010 at 6:42 PM said...

Man is by nature political, if you read Greene's Art of Seduction, you will be exposed by his emphasis of the role of power played in all relationships, whether it is love affair or running a nation.

It just happened that this emphasis is concealed most of the time. People hate to admit it but they are doing it everyday. Every human action can be interpreted in one way or another to his/her acquisition of greater power.

Capt. La Soul on February 13, 2010 at 4:01 AM said...

"The power of all relationships lies to whoever cares less”, I don't think I have heard anything that ringz so true out of all thingz that could be said when it comez to this subject matter. I read this headline and almost instantly it made perfect sense in itz essence. Why? Becauze I am about to divulge a personal secret of knowledge to all my fellow men out there: In a relationship(gay, lesbian, bisexual, heterosexual watever) there iz alwayz one person who lovez tha other person more than the other.

Capt. La Soul on February 13, 2010 at 4:02 AM said...

A harsh reality to believe and understand, but true all tha same. It is true for tha reason that in tha beginning stages of a relationship(and even tha middle and end) there iz alwayz one person who iz more ready and willing to open themselves up to the other(whether it iz tha male or female). For watever reason, the other person feels compelled to open themselves up first, that person lovez the other more than they could ever understand.

Capt. La Soul on February 13, 2010 at 4:07 AM said...

If anyone has any questionz on relationshipz, women, life, body language, and or psychology shoot me an email at zetori.hanzo.t@gmail.com.

And BTW don't get it twisted my name iz pronounced ZN, just like you're saying only two letterz. Sayonara.

Rich Manila on February 13, 2010 at 6:36 AM said...

Thank Zian for your very profound and well thought ideas :D

It is nice to see people realizing the truth by them selves.

Sebastian Salvador on February 24, 2010 at 12:02 PM said...

"He who love less rules the relationship."

I have a fair share of experiences that backed up this statement ,with me at the losing end.

For me its 100% or nothing, if I felt that the girl's love for me is only 20% I will not continue in the relationship to prevent her manipulation and control.

Its either we jump together to the deep blue ocean or not jump at all.

Anonymous said...

Well said. I totally agree with the comments I have read. I have just come out of a relationship that has been fading away because it was hurting me too much to love him more than he could ever love me.

Anonymous said...

Relationships that last are not about power.

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