If you have to flex it, It is not there
You wonder how you can easily differentiate amateurs to professionals. You want to easily distinguish who are the people who counted many years in any field and gain notable experience? In my stay in the different communities, organization and subcultures in the past years, I notice one thing in common in newbies and amateur.
THEY FLEX TOO MUCH.
Take for example the area or study of seduction. For example , a newbie learned from a pick up book or seminar that you have to act as a challenge and they use a particular routine to convey that attitude. Take for example when a girl ask him a favor, he will always say, “ Say the magic word… Say PLEASE.” He will do this every time and everywhere. He will do this even to his mother, even to his grandmother and maybe even to a police officer (as long as the officer is a she). I see this all the time in newbies and though at first it somehow bring some small successes to the man like a small hug and little kiss in the cheek from the women, as time goes by the magic of that particular act loses its mojo. It even came to the point that it produces a negative impression to the people around because of the ‘inauthenticity’ it radiates.
When we compare it to men who already counted years in this endeavor I always notice that they are not really bother to ‘show off’ this attitudes. They don’t overdo because they don’t do. They simply BE. Hence, as Tyler Durden will say..
‘BEING NOT DOING.’
Take a look at professional body builders. You can conclude that they are spending day after day working out in the gym even without walking half naked in the street or wearing a super fitted shirt. How about an amateur in body building who just started 2 weeks ago, he will flex his biceps or his chest in front of the mirror as much as he can just for him to see and notice the small growth that he had.
I believe that this should be the ultimate goal of every man who is studying every endeavor. For me this is the ideal. To be able to pull off the success despite the lack of planning, tactics or any form of ‘supplication’. To be able to chill and relax but at the same time can still pull off the success that he desires. He does not have to flex anything. He does not need to show off. Even without flexing… the muscles are there.
Till next time! Keep it light men!
-Twiggy
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