If there is one thing that can slowly kill any possible romantic relationship or even an existing relationship, there is no better answer than ‘failing to push the trigger.’
Failing to push the trigger or the inability to advance physically is equals to boredom. Failure to advance physically is equals timidity. Not advancing enough leads to the dreaded friend zone.
Why? Why do guys don’t advance enough? Can’t they recognize the fact that friends don’t touch and friends don’t kiss?
Most guys think that intimacy or having sex to a woman is a one way street wherein only men are benefitting. When you think like this, it follows that you are the one who are taking and ripping off value. Men who know their way to women don’t think like this. Sex and intimacy is a two way street wherein both parties enjoy and benefit. Enough with the common and popular culture wherein it seems that only men chase sex and intimacy. Women feel the same urge too, if not the same, they feel much greater. I remember a quotation in a Hindu Sanskrit which says like this, “Women have two times the sexual urge of men,” or something like that.
Intimacy and sex favors both men and women. Society made a good job in spreading the belief that only men enjoy and benefit with it. This widespread belief ruins both men and women. From this fact, there is no rational to mask your desires and intentions. It is no longer a one way street. If you like it, there is also a good chance that she likes it (as long as you play your cards right).
In the first installment of the Matrix, Mouse said to Neo a very profound quote, “To deny your instinct is to deny the very thing that makes you human.” Conclusion, don’t deny your instincts, don’t mask your intentions. Always remember that we cannot exist in this world without our mother and father doing their thing. Sex is natural for human beings as much as eating and drinking.
How will you advance physically? Let me share some simple pointers. The following are what you need to take in mind:
- Start small. When you advance or touch, start from small things like holding her hand for a while or gently tapping her. It doesn’t matter how small and short the gesture is, as long as your skins have contact, it is good.
- The next thing to take in mind is to advance continuously. Don’t settle to your small gestures. Work your way up.
- And finally, if she rejected your advance, don’t be discouraged. When a women, rejected your advance and approach, it can mean three things, (1) arouse her more or flirt more, (2) too many people are watching or you need to move to a more private place, (3) she just don’t like you. Don’t interpret her rejection as simply, “I don’t like you!” Turning down your advance can mean many things.
Always remember, for you not to be trapped in the friend zone, you must touch and kiss. Because friends don’t touch and kiss, lovers do.
-Twiggy
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